Friday, January 20, 2012
Abusive ex threatening suicide?
Most people that are suicidal dont threaten to kill themselves, they just do it.. the best thing u can do is not to play into his manipulation of your feelings because thats what he's trying to do , he's trying to make u feel bad for him.. best thing u can do is call 911 when he threatens it.. because they will come and take him away and well he'll eventually stop threating to kill himself when he gets mive bills for ambulance rides and 24 hour lock ups for threatening suicide.. dont play into his emotional crap .. my abusive x would do the same crap.. but he finally made the mistake of doing one of his suicidal threats over the phone from the police station phone thats recorded and they locked him up for the threat lol.. needless to say he never made that threat again lol.. he needs help and id use the courts to get him supervised visitations with his daughter until he seeks anger management cles , and if ur actually physicaly scared of him, then get a family protection order on you and your daughter so he cant come with in so many feet of u .. most of what he says and does is non-sense, he's learned through his life "women" respond to his stupidity because either he can inimidate, manipulate, or take advange of a females emotions , id be willing to bet that u never witnessed him actting like this in front of another man, or someone that he truely respects.. thats typcially how they work.. Dont feel sorry for him cause he came from a broken home, heck most of society these days comes from broken homes, it doesnt give us the right to go actting like a fool and excusing our own actions because of it.. its called the Poor Pitiful Me Act... and as long as ur buying it , he's going to keep dishing it out to u .. stay calm... and instead of fighting with him, come up with game plans ahead of time to counter his actions and make him responsible for his own actions and have to pay the consequences to his actions.. he needs to grow up , better to put ur foot down now, then waiting years down the road while ur daughter has to grow up watching this bad behavior..
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